Intimacy coaching that meets you where you are.
My Clients
I work with women and women-identified people who are ready—or even just curious—to reclaim their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies, and rewrite the stories they’ve been told about pleasure, power, and intimacy.
Many of my clients come from backgrounds where sexuality was framed through fear, shame, or silence. Others simply never received the education, permission, or support to explore what they truly want. Some are skeptical or scared to begin—worried they’re “too shut down,” “too late,” or “too far gone” to change. Others feel overwhelmed by the idea of working with a “sex coach” or don’t even know what that means or where to begin.
Clients who come to me often struggle with sexual disconnection or numbness, religious or cultural shame around sex and pleasure, difficulty identifying desires or asking for what they want, struggles with intimacy or arousal, repeating relational or sexual patterns they’re ready to break, a longing for deeper connection—with themselves or a partner, the desire for spiritually-integrated intimacy that honors both erotic and emotional connection.
My Focus Areas
I specialize in supporting individuals and couples navigating:
Religious or cultural sexual repression, especially those raised in Christian, Mormon, evangelical, or conservative faith traditions
Queer, questioning, or non-conforming identities seeking safe, affirming guidance
Polyamorous or non-monogamous relationship structures in need of somatic, boundary-aware support
Partnerships and couples looking to deepen emotional and physical intimacy
Survivors of sexual trauma or boundary violations ready to rebuild safety and body trust.
Methodology
My sessions are highly personalized and goal-oriented. We help you identify where you are, where you want to go, and what’s standing in the way. Together, we will:
Clarify your sexual or relationship goals through structured inquiry and desire-mapping,
Unpack internalized shame, fear, or confusion stemming from religious, cultural, or familial conditioning,
Explore your core desires and emotional needs, including what turns you on and what makes you feel safe,
Identify and transform patterns that limit intimacy, connection, or pleasure
Build communication skills for asking for what you want—confidently and compassionately,
Complete practical worksheets and guided exercises designed to deepen insight and accelerate progress.
“Your growth is yours—uniquely defined by your values, your truth, and your body’s timing. But what I can guarantee is this: You won’t walk away the same.”
— Melissa Beh, Intimacy Coach
Client Results
I can’t promise exactly what you’ll discover—but I can promise you’ll find something that changes everything.
You will be invited to clarify your deepest desires—whether that means healing from sexual trauma, reigniting intimacy in your relationship, exploring your authentic identity, or simply feeling at home in your body for the first time. You’ll name your goals. I’ll help you work toward them, with structure, support, and somatic tools grounded in the science of transformation.
This work is not about “fixing” you. It’s about unleashing what has always been true inside you—your wisdom, your voice, your pleasure, your power.
I promise to meet you with compassion, evidence-based practices, and zero shame. I hold a container that is safe, courageous, and deeply personal. Within that space, you will be supported to:
Set clear goals for your healing or growth—sexual, relational, spiritual, or emotional
Access and process the root patterns that have kept you stuck
Learn nervous system-aware tools to expand capacity for pleasure, intimacy, and connection
Rewire limiting beliefs inherited from religion, culture, or trauma
Develop real-world skills to communicate needs, navigate boundaries, and experience embodied desire
FAQs
Is your methodology safe and proven?
Yes! This work is real, evidence-based, gentle, and safe. It’s practical, grounded, and focused on helping you experience lasting, achievable change—not spiritual bypassing or forced transformation. You’ll never be asked to do anything that feels overwhelming or out of sync with your values.
Are you a licensed sex therapist?
No. I am not a licensed psychotherapist. My work is not a substitute for therapy—it’s a complement to it. While therapy helps you process and heal, I’m here to help you name your goals, remove blocks, and stay accountable as you build the life and intimacy you want. I collaborate with your growth by offering tools, frameworks, and personalized support in a forward-moving, action-oriented container. I do not diagnose or treat mental health conditions. While my work is therapeutically informed, I operate as a coach—providing tools, structure, and guidance to support you in achieving your goals.
Do you do in-person meetings?
No, I conduct all of my meetings via Zoom. Meetings are between 60-90 minutes long.
Do you offer discounted plans?
We also understand that investing in yourself can feel hard—especially if this kind of work is new. That’s why I am currently offering sliding-scale and tiered pricing options to make this work accessible across various income levels. I believe that healing, pleasure, and empowerment are not luxuries—they are human rights. Contact me directly to discuss your needs.
